● Kurra96 :
I am heading into college this fall, and so is my boyfriend. We are going to school about 10 hours apart.
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W have been dating for almost 5 months, but we have been best friends for about 2 years.
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When we started to fall for eachother, we had a lengthy indepth convo about our future.
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we both decided that it would be best to end our relationship when we left for college.
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(we knew that we were going to different schools). And I was okay with that, and I agreed.
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Now that we have 6 weeks left together, I am starting to change my mind. I do not want to break up, but
● Kurra96 :
i feel like it is not fair for me to talk about this issues, because we already agreed to break up long ago.
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We get along so well (better than most teenage relationships). We share everything:money,possesions,etc
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people tell us that we act like a married couple, and we spend every day and night together. We never
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raise our voices to eachother. And when we fight, we talk it through with mutual respect.
● Kurra96 :
I have never met a guy like him, and I'm worried that I won't be able to love another person this way.
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I know most teens go through this phase in relationships, but this feels different than the steriotypical
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and it doesn't make it easier that he is my first love... basically my first everything. So it is hard
● Kurra96 :
I can't tell if I am being overdramatic.... I am trying so hard to not be that stereotypical girl,but I can't help it
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everytime i think of breaking up, i start crying... amd i don't want to make him feel guilty!
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And it is worse because he has to leave 2 day before my birthday for his college orientation...
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I know he loves me... that's why I don't want to tell him about my feelings. I know he wants to break up
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But if I tell him how I realy feel then would feel guilty for hurting me, even though it isn't his fault
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and he might even stay with me out of pity, because he doesn't want to make me cry or hurt me...
● Kurra96 :
I want him to stay with me, but I would rather break up, than have him stay out of pity
college break-up chat chat
