i went to work, she had an affair, i came back and found out it was with who was gonna be my best man. then she packed up our son and moved away with him. the worst part, her father knew from the beginning, and he gave them the house that was our wedding present...... anyhoo, i figuer there has to be others out there who know thease kind of feelings, and mabey some peace can be found with a little shared misery, and mabey someone has a success story.