Once you?ve spoken about yourself for a bit, it?s time to tell the world what you?re looking for. If this rings a bell with the other person, you may well get a good response. Are you looking for someone who shares your hobbies? Is your perfect partner someone who likes going out every evening or someone who prefers quieter times? Maybe both? Are you looking to eventually settle down and have children or just companionship? Adding a few desctiptions of activities you enjoy that you could share could also work, though obviously avoid any X-rated ones unless you are dating on that kind of site )